An old habit.

I’ve already talked about my stupidly cliche love for Starbucks a few times. Despite wishing I could stop going so often, I can’t. You’d think that being on a tight budget would cut my trips down significantly, and in a way they have. I used to go at least twice per week (sometimes as much as 5 or 6) and spend at least $4 per trip. In 2013, I spent $540.19 at Starbucks.

But, this year I have improved… just not by much. I mentioned how I already re-loaded my Starbucks gold card before the New Year, so I had $40-something that I was just going to treat like a gift card, spending it throughout the year so I could have my fix but in moderation. Well, January isn’t even over and I have $19.01 left. 😦 Quasi-fail.

Given that I’ve been able to stay well under my weekly budget so far, I definitely have extra cash in my money jar to spend as I please, and it could be at Starbucks if I want it to be! But, my lack of self-control is ever more apparent now that I’ve seen how quickly I’m going through the money on my gold card.

In other news, my fiance’s birthday is today and we’re going out to dinner. I’ve decided that even though I have spent my actual money on his present (non-allowance money, that is), I will take the cash out of my jar and use it towards his dinner tonight. It took a lot of thought, but my reason for doing this is simple: this is a dinner out. Any other dinner out I would have to budget for accordingly. Just because it is his birthday doesn’t mean this one dining out experience has to be a free-for-all! So, I’ll be using one of my gift cards, along with some of the cash in my wallet and from my money jar tonight. Hopefully it won’t be too bad!

Wish me luck!

Weekly Allowance: $60.00
Weekly Allowance Remaining: $55.84

Tipping on a budget.

For one summer in high school, I worked at a Dunkin’ Donuts / Baskin Robbins (affectionately referred to as “Dunkin’ Robbins” by anyone who has ever worked at such a place). It may not be as long as some folks have worked in food, but I still learned something that summer: tips are amazing, and those who don’t give them are assholes. I also learned that if your Dunkin’ Donuts doesn’t have a bakery in it, you’re probably getting day-old (at least!) donuts and bagels. Oh! And, never ever have them spread the cream cheese on your bagel for you – do it yourself. Trust me.

Uh… anyway… back to tipping!

A friend and I stopped at Dunkin’ Donuts on my way home from our knitting meetup last night because I was really hungry and cold. One latte order later, and I was rang up: $3 and change. I’d ordered the latte becauase it was on sale for 99 cents if you order one after 2pm. I corrected her, she apologized, and I got it for 99 cents… plus 7 cents tax. Being on a budget, I wanted all of my coins – all 94 cents of it – in my own pocket. I need it! I only have so much! But, realizing it’s after 10pm on a federal holiday and this woman is working alone in a Dunkin Donuts made me stop and think.

Summer of 2003, there was a huge freaking black-out in the northeastern United States, including my hometown. I was working at “Dunkin’ Robbins” that day and the witch-like wife of my boss was supervising us. The power went out, yet she still forced us to work. There was a carnival across the street at the time, and once the power ran out and the generators ran out of gas, everyone from the carnival bombarded us with demands of iced coffee and ice cream. (Mind you, this was way before Dunkin’ Donuts got fancy. It was simple: coffee, bagels, donuts, breakfast sandwiches. On my last day of work, actually, they were installing our first latte machine. I sure got out just in time!)

A line of pissed off, heat exhausted families with equally pissed off, heat-exhausted kids took over our dark store. Our witch of a supervisor was yelling at us, “DON’T YOU DARE OPEN A REFRIGERATOR OR FREEZER OR THE ICE CREAM WILL MELT! TURN EVERYONE AROUND WHO NEEDS ICE CREAM! JUST SERVE COFFEE!” The biggest problem, however, wasn’t that the ice for the iced coffee was melting, or that the coffee itself was disappearing with every purchase – it was that our registers ran on electricity and couldn’t be opened with the power being out. We had to use our tips to make change for people. After we ran out of coffee, we sent everyone away and put a “Sorry, we’re closed” sign on our door. Instead of sending us home (since my shift was over in an hour and a half anyway) she made us clean on our hands and knees in the dark – the floor, the counters, the sinks, the bathroom, the back room – everything.

And, at the end of all of this, I didn’t get a single tip.

So, last night I gave the girl a 17% tip – 19 cents. In hindsight, I should’ve given more. But, at least I did it. I could’ve been pissy about her not giving me my discount until I had to ask her. I could’ve been upset that it took her 3 minutes to make a tiny espresso beverage. I could’ve been like all the unnecessarily angry people who get their triple-grande-soy-caramel-macchiato and barely give a smile, surely not a tip.

Regardless of your budget, tip your server after your meal, your barista when you get your espresso, your bartender when you get your whiskey, and your cashier when they spread your cream cheese on your bagel for you. If not, be prepared for your next bagel to have expired cream cheese spread all over it… not that I’ve ever done such a thing…

Weekly Allowance: $60.00
Weekly Allowance Remaining: $50.34

J

Money-spending in Boston on my day off.

The good news is that I got lots of wedding stuff done (or at least started) yesterday on my day off! The bad news is that many things on my list didn’t happen or weren’t finished. Let’s review, shall we?

  • Drop my car off for maintenance. So, this one happened! I dropped it off, it was done pretty damn quickly, and my car is back in my possession. It cost $150-ish to do everything (oil, new belt, new bulb) which, as mentioned, does not come out of my budget. However, this morning, the issue they said would be solved by the new belt isn’t fixed after all. Ugh. (Side-note: I totally knew it wasn’t the belt at all, but they insisted. Luckily I have it in writing that if this doesn’t fix the problem, they’re going to give me some money back and fix the actual issue.) On my way back home from the body shop, I wanted a coffee because it was freezing and I had a mile walk after my subway ride. I spent $2.88 on a jumbo coffee at 7-11, obviously to be taken out of my allowance.
  • Shop for wedding stuff. This happened, but wasn’t totally successful. I was able to find some things on my list (elastic string for the garter I’m knitting, puff paint for my shoes) but not others (chalkboard paint, chalk markers). I was able to finish my DIY stuff on my shoes (it’s a secret!) and started knitting my garter. I also begun my DIY chalkboard (after walking to Goodwill and finding an awesome ugly framed print for me to use as my base), but without chalkboard paint, I obviously didn’t finish. Our wedding is going to have lots of Legos in it (seriously) so I spent about an hour soaking and cleaning the Legos we bought off of craigslist. I was definitely productive!
  • Possibly get my hair cut. This did not happen. Boo.
  • Do something fitnessy. This didn’t happen, either. For what it’s worth, I did walk at least 3.5 miles during my trek between Goodwill, the auto body shop, 7-11, etc.
  • Go to trivia with coworkers. I did this and didn’t spend a dime! One of the guys owed me a beer, and I shared appetizers that were offered to me. Done and done.

One thing I forgot to mention in my list is that I had a dentist appointment, too. That didn’t go very well, as I was told that my mother’s genes are continuing to show themselves in me… in the form of periodontal disease! Not fun! My mother has been seeing periodontists since I was a baby (she was in her early 30s at the time) and it got so bad that she had to get 6 teeth (I think!) removed and dental implants put in when she was in her mid-40s. My oral hygienist, upon seeing what she said were “puffy gums” asked about my mom’s periodontal disease history and said, “Wow. I’ve never heard of someone going through all of that at such a young age!” (To compare: my father, who is going to be 70, has one little spot on his gum that is “at risk”. I have at least 3 teeth whose gums are “at risk” and I’m only 28. My mother, who is 58, had six teeth removed and still has disease. Apparently I have the gums of a 100-year-old or something, I guess.)

So, now I have to spend money on an electric toothbrush, special mouthwash, and a prescription they wrote for me for some kind of special toothpaste. This, obviously, will not come out of my allowance because it’s a medical necessity. Ugh ugh ugh. Lesson of the day, kids: floss your damn teeth.

Despite all of the rollercoaster of good and bad going on, my money-spending was totally in control. I honestly didn’t need that cup of coffee, but I really wanted it. I guess it’s the most impulsive buy I’ve done all month, and compared to my usual impulses, this was nothing. A normal convenience store impulse buy would be getting the coffee… and a string cheese… and sunglasses… and some kind of snack for my fiance. I think I did well, right?

Weekly Allowance: $60.00
Weekly Allowance Remaining: $57.12

J

My beloved gold card.

No, I’m not talking about a credit card. I’m talking about my Starbucks Gold Card. I’ve been a member since it first became available in early 2009. It’s used like a hybrid between a gift card and a debit card – you add money from a bank account or credit card to the Starbucks card and use it to make purchases. You get a discount on all purchases and random free stuff, like a free birthday drink and other things.

sbuxWell, late in 2013, my auto-reload went into effect, so now I have $40 on my Starbucks Gold Card. It may sound like I’m cheating, but I’m going to treat this like a gift card. The money was taken out of my account in December, so it isn’t like I can get it back – it’s stuck on my card until I use it. So, I’m using it eventually. Sorry, folks, if you’re disappointed. 😦

Also, when I posted earlier about unsubscribing to all of the e-mail spam I get from stores, I didn’t exclude my Starbucks Gold Card emails. The reason? The freebies. I got an e-mail today about a limited-time, one-day offer for a free latte. So, I redeemed it on my way to work this morning. Wham, bam, thank you ma’am!

As of writing this post, I haven’t gone out to Trivia with coworkers yet, nor have I gone shopping for dinner-making items for my girly coworker get-together yet. So, for now…

Weekly Allowance: $60.00
Weekly Allowance Remaining: $60.00

J